Every woman in a relationship does not worry much regarding being cheated by their partner. In fact all partners do not cheat but there are few partner who tend to have the tendency to cheat their wives. It becomes impossible for any woman to know whether their partners are cheating them as we always cannot keep eye on them. So here are some few common behavior which will help the woman about whether their partner are cheating them or not.
1.Taking or making phone calls in private
Though there is a requirement of privacy while taking or making phone calls. If your partner retreats to the other room every time the phone rings, there may be something more going on, especially if this behavior is new or has suddenly become more frequent.
2.Deletes the text history from the phone
Most people do not bother deleting old text messages until the phone is full. If your partner makes sure that old messages are deleted or deletes them as soon as he finishes a conversation with someone. Then there may be more going on than just texting.
3.Maintaining multiple e-mail or social media accounts
If you discover additional or hidden e-mail or social media sites, things are almost certainly not good. Simply put, people in committed relationships have no need to maintain accounts that their partners do not know. If you discover one of these, then you need to be concerned.
4.Avoiding family or other social events
Disloyalty whether physical or emotional will always result in lost time with friends and family. If your partner avoids social gatherings or activities, leaves early or arrives late because of some project or task, there may be a strong chance that he is spending time with someone else, whether on the phone, the computer or in person.
5.Suddenly spends tons of time with another person
If your partner is suddenly spending a lot of time with a colleague, co-worker, friend or even an acquaintance, particularly if that person is of the opposite sex, you may want to learn more about this relationship and the possibility that there may be an affair going on.
6.Gives gifts or frequently volunteers to help another person
Although it is nice to give gifts and do kind things for friends, family members and even strangers. If your partner frequently gives gifts, especially those that are costly, take time and effort to prepare or have significant meaning or volunteers to help out with projects around the home then this could be a sign that he is having an affair.
7.Notice a different scent on him
Whether it is another woman’s perfume or possibly a different brand of soap from showering elsewhere, your senses know things. If he is coming home freshly showered after a full day of work, the same way he left for work, you may have a hint that he is having an affair.
8.Does not touch you as much
Sometimes affection drops off a bit due to poor communication, unresolved issues or a recent argument. If this is unexplained behavior or he is repelling you with odd excuses, you may have a hint. At minimum, you have an issue in your relationship that requires to be addressed honestly.
9.Dresses differently
Does your husband is dressing a little differently or keeps his vehicle a bit cleaner? Has he been acting slightly happier and more cooperative yet all of a sudden? Is he is busier and just leaving the house more often? Then you must take interest in his new activity/involvement if you are really curious about what is going on.
10.Gone longer
Do your man goes for an half an hour walk and all of a sudden you noticed that his walk takes more than an hour and keeps on increasing? If this things are started to happen then he may be having an affair. You need to go with him once in a while to keep a watch upon your partner.
11.Picks fights
Has your husband started arguments that end up in him leaving the house a lot? Are his garments missing here and there? If so then certainly something is going on!
12.Being extra secretive
Have you noticed sudden change in his privacy attitude? You are unaware of his whereabouts or who he is talking to on the phone and it is not close to your birthday, anniversary or upcoming gift-giving holiday? Then he may be having an affair.
13.Change in the emotional quality of your relationship
We all go through emotional changes, like the weather. However, you may notice that your partner’s attitude has changed toward you over time. They may have become more self-absorbed and less interested in you or the relationship. Then you need to be curious about his whereabouts.
14.Extremely angry
Your partner may treat you with rudeness or impatience. He may be more controlling and more critical than usual. You may sense an increase in the degree of unhappiness in your spouse which could be difficult for you to understand. You may actually see an increase in happiness with some other partner. Therefore, this is a result of being involved in an affair.
15.Notice an increase in his work or his time spent away from home
Work is important but need to spend with family as well. During these times of economic stress, most workplaces are demanding more and more from their employees. Workplace relationships can develop into romantic relationships simply because the amount of time spent together on a common task tends to bond people together. If your partner has trouble with boundaries then this could lead to a problem for your relationship.
16.Pays an unusual amount of attention to his appearance
Your partner has not shown much attention to his appearance until now. If your partner is having an affair then you will find him that he has found a new source of love and affection. He must do everything to look good.
17.Overly defensive
In any relationship, defensiveness exists for many reasons. In the past, were you able to discuss issues openly and calmly? What you are looking for here is an increase in the normal amount of defensiveness.
18.Appearance has changed
Your partner who previously dressed conservatively. Suddenly he is buying designer boxer shorts and more trendy clothes. You have noticed that your partner who never spent much time grooming himself, is now fussy about how his hair looks and uses grooming products which he never used before. Such are the results of having an affair.
19.Behavior has changed
Your partner, who usually avoided office parties and events, is now constantly attending them for the sake of his career or your partner suddenly takes up and becomes obsessed with a new hobby or sport that keeps him away from home or your partner who usually is home for dinner every night now works late and takes more frequent business trips.
20.Attitude has changed
Your laid back partner seems to have been injected with unusual enthusiasm, seems happier, alive, and energetic and is more kind and loving towards you, too. He may buy you more gifts and shower you with surprises which has not been his natural character until now.
21.Wants less we time and more time for own self
When you got together as a couple you consciously or unconsciously negotiated how much own time you would have and how much we time you as a couple would have. Now, you are noticing a shift from us to your partner wanting much more me time. You are not included to the degree you used to be in your partner’s extra-curricular activities.
hough all husband does not cheat their partner yet if you notice such behavior in your partner then without any delay you must be sure about your partner’s having an extra marital affair. You must keep a watch upon your partner so that you can avoid yourself from being cheated by your husband.